Friday, July 15, 2011

Harry Potter

In the ultimate battle between good and evil, pure at heart and downright soulless, the saga of Harry Potter has grasped both ends and everything in between. JK Rowling has mastered the art of writing, in this beautifully dangerous depiction of a young boy fighting against powers bigger and greater than him, against an enemy who is in every sense of the word ‘invincible’, a wizard whom everyone fears.

There are few books that can grab the readers by the hearts and never let go, leaving them wanting more, even after seven books! From the moment the half giant Hagrid came barreling onto Privet Drive with a tiny baby in his hands in “Sorcerer’s Stone” I was immersed. The magic of Professor McGonagall turning from cat into woman and the mystery of how the tiny infant known as Harry had gotten that lightning scar on his forehead cast a spell over me and there was no turning back.

As each book became available and the story of The Boy Who Lived continued, the characters and the magical places of Hogwarts, Hogsmead, and Diagon Alley became something more to me. A wish that there were really places like these, places that offered so much more adventure than real life. Somewhere to escape the mundane and normalcy of actual life. Everyone wishes for that at one point or another. JK Rowling has created something so wonderful with these books, this one long wonderful story, and I will always be affected by these characters.

Harry is shown to us in the first book from the moment he arrives on the doorstep of his muggle Aunt Petunia, Uncle Vernon and cousin Dudley as a sad, neglected boy, who is forced to live in a small space under the staircase and is relegated to playing second fiddle to Dudley. He is lonely with nobody to talk to except for a snake at the local zoo, until his eleventh birthday when he finds out that he is a wizard. From that point his life is completely changed, for the better. And although he has to deal with his aforementioned enemy – Voldemort (or he who must not be named) – a bully by the name of Draco Malfoy and his companions, and a professor who seems to be out to get him – Professor Severus Snape, his life is a happier one than that of Privet Drive.



I can relate to Harry in that sense of loneliness and wishing for something better, something magical to happen! I yearn for the adventure that Harry partakes in throughout the seven years that the book takes place. An escape from reality. Who can’t at some point in their lives relate to that?

Yes, he loses people close to him and has to deal with hardships and bullies but the good outweighs the bad. He is constantly surrounded by people who love him, care for him and who are there to protect him in every way possible. With the constant companionship of his two best friends Hermione Granger and Ron Weasley, he is never truly alone. Everyone can relate to having if not two but at least one person who is your (excuse the “LOST” connection here) constant. In my life I can say I have many, and your friend and mine Mark is one of them! He is the Ron to my Harry.

Throughout the entire book series my favorite character wasn’t Harry, Hermione or even Ron. It was the professor that Harry despised, the Professor who always yearned for the position of the Defense against the Dark Arts teacher. A tall figure with long dark hair, a pointy nose and beady eyes, who for all intents and purposes was one of the key figures on Voldemort’s side. Professor Severus Snape. Up until the very end of “Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows” the readers are led to believe he is evil, and is out to destroy Harry. We are told and shown that he killed Dumbledore and had always been on the bad side of things. He was always my favorite character, even before we learned of his true intentions, how he had always been protecting Harry in every way he possibly could. That he had always loved Harry’s mother Lily and would do anything for her even after her death. There was something deeper to Snape that I connected with. His deep inner emotions and I knew in my core that he was just misunderstood.

Harry Potter has become a franchise, books, movies, action figures, posters, wands and yes even an amusement park! And to think it all started with one single mother living on welfare, only able to write the first book on napkins she had to use at a local coffee shop. It makes me believe that anything is possible. Dreams are attainable. Whether it be to write the next great American novel or be Head Boy, you can achieve your highest wish if you can overcome the many obstacles in your life.

I think that is what this series has meant the most to me. The realization that no matter how young or old you are, if you are a wizard, witch, muggle or half blood, you can outsmart fire breathing dragons, tame a hippogriff, slay a basilisk, catch a snitch or fight Lord Voldemort and win or simply write an epic adventure of one simple boy on his journey to adulthood!

So as I sit here waiting to see the final movie of the series…the epic war between good and evil…I feel sadness at it’s departure but also excitement for the truly amazing journey that we have
all been on.




Magically yours –
Lindsay

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

4th of July in the Citay!

My 4th of July tradition of visiting C-dubbs in NYC was just this past weekend. It was fun! We saw Transformers (great action, but too long), Larry Crowne (cute, but not the best), Super 8 (amazing!!!!!!!!) and Bad Teacher (funnier than I thought it would be but Cameron Diaz was not good).

We watched some X-Files and hung out with Allison, Ashley & Cari.

The most fun time was seeing Mark, Amanda and their friend Tammi! Yay. They met us at the "Love Loss and What I Wore" stage door where we met Susan Sullivan (Martha Rodgers, Castle) and Emily Bergl (Beth Young, Desperate Housewives). We then mosied on over to "The Normal Heart" stage door where we met Jim Parsons (Sheldon, Big Bang Theory), Lee Pace (Ned, Pushing Daisies), Luke Macfarlane (Scotty, Brothers & Sisters), Justin Kirk (Andy, Weeds) and saw Dana Delaney, Ellen Barkin, Harvey Keitel and Kate Burton.

I also saw Daniel Radcliffe at the stage door of "How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying." He was nice and spoke with Carrie about how he couldn't take pictures with us and would be out after the show. He is also adorable!

Fun trip!

In Memory of Caylee Anthony

Three years ago the news reported the disappearance of 2-year old Caylee Marie Anthony and ever since then it has been one thing after another, where it seemed that Caylee's mother Casey was involved.

Six months after her disappearance her body was found in the woods wrapped in a plastic garbage bag in a swamp.

The trial has ended, and Casey Anthony was found not guilty. An alternate juror said that he would have come up with the same decision, based on the fact that the prosecution didn't do a very good job of convincing them, and it all came down to they didn't know the cause of death, and they couldn't provide a decent motive.


I can see how the motive could be an issue, what mother ever has a motive to kill her own child? But on the various accounts that I have heard throughout the years, of notes Casey wrote saying how parenting was difficult and a burden, and she'd rather be out partying. Yes, that doesn't seem like a good enough motive (but what really is when it comes to innocent children?) but if you are emotionally damaged then motive isn't really important to that person. And what about the reports that there were searches done on Casey's computer for chloroform and neck breaking, that only Casey could have searched for...that seems a pretty good indication of her involvement! And if THAT didn't convince you, what kind of mother doesn't report her 2-year old daughter's disappearance for 31 days? And then makes up a fake babysitter and a fake job to cover up her lies?

It seemed a sure thing that Casey would be found guilty, as the world had no doubts about her guilt...but who knows what was going through that jury's mind. I guess I can kind of see how there is reasonable doubt, as they never said how Caylee actually died. All I can say is Casey knows and she was involved. And that poor little girl is gone from this world because she was unfortunate enough to be born to an immature woman who should never have been a parent. I feel terrible that justice has not been served in this case. But Casey will have to live with what happened and I hope she has nightmares every night and always remembers her precious daughter who deserved so much better than her!

RIP Caylee Marie Anthony!
August 8, 2005 - June 16, 2008

Amanda in the City





Amanda came to the city for the weekend of the 4th of July. She stayed with me for a night and I took her around to HK (where we ate milky way ice cream). We walked up to Columbus Circle and she saw Central Park (specifically Strawberry Fields and the Dakota building). We then took a cab to Harlem and ate the best mac and cheese available anywhere (at the Hudson River Cafe). She was a big sport when we ended the night at gay bar Industry (I met a guy born in 1988). Did you know people born in 1988 are allowed to drink? I was informed people even born in 1991 are now of legal age. I am old (but he thought I was 26 :)

The next day we met more friends (specifically crazy pants herself LMD!!) She looked refreshed for a night of celeb stalking outside broadway theaters. She saw Susan Sullivan (of My Best Friend's Wedding/Castle fame). We saw some lady from Desperate Housewives. We saw Ellen Barkin and Harvey Keitel. Kate Burton and Dana Delaney. Lee Pace and Jim Parsons. Joe Mantello and John Benjamin Hickey.

And Luke McFarlance (who is dreamier than anyone could predict). Lindsay got a picture. But he's mine! All of them were so sweet (including Lindsay- can you believe that?). It was a great weekend filled with great friends.

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

My NK Drama kids ROCK!

It's me, Lindsay. I know i've been MIA the past few posts but I have an excuse...I've been crazy busy and just haven't had a moment to update all of our amazing readers about what has been going on in the life of Lindsay! I apologize, please forgive!

Have any of you spent three months working so hard to perfect something you care about? That is what I have been doing. It was NK Drama season and with each year, it brought me stress, insomnia, tears and most of all the most incredible experience of my life. It always ends up being a whirlwind of activity and emotions and as much as I complain about it, it is the most important thing to me and is something I look forward to every day.

This year we put on a production of "Camp Rock: the Musical", which was something so far away from what we have done in the past. I wanted to get away from the Disney Princess shows and do something fun and different. It was a challenge and a lot of hard work, but in the end it was totally worth it. I know I gave everything I had into this year, and I can say with almost 100% certainty that my kids did the same.

The performances went up Saturday (6/25/11) and Sunday (6/26/11) and both days were so great. There was so much dancing and singing that it was hard to get bored, which is a great thing. I can't even express to you all how proud I am of my kids! They just surpass all of my expectations of them and their talent floors me.

At the end of the Sunday performance I was called up on the stage, as per usual and was given flowers. Something unexpected, they framed a poem for me, which was beautiful and so sweet. All of my kids signed the matte and Michaela read it to me as I tried my best not to cry. Then all 82 of my kids gathered around me for a huge group hug. <3 <3 <3

These kids mean the world to me! I don't know what I would do if they weren't a part of my life.


Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Fire Island 2011


I went to Fire Island once three years ago. It was everything I thought it might be. It wore me down. That wasn't a bad thing, but even at three years younger it wasn't who I was.

This time I was in charge. Who doesn't like that? I gathered up a few friends and took the ferry over (in the rain). I waited three years to return and it was going to rain? I didn't think so. But the forecast said rain.

We watched the A list and a housemate cooked dinner (it was good food!). And then I contemplated buying a sweater because it was so cold.

But when the bill to legalize gay marriage became a law (well we still need it to be signed and we need it to be a federal)... but it's a start. How stupid does California look now?

But I didn't buy a sweater. And the next day the sun came out. And it never left. It wasn't humid. There were no bugs. I got more color then I ever have.

It was just nice to be disconnected from everything. It was nice to be relaxed. The drama was non existent. I probably ate too much pizza (no I did). And I didn't find a boy. But it wasn't about that. It was about me and hanging around people who are fun and a positive influence.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Food in NYC

Here is the perfect website for all your food needs while you're living (or visiting) NYC. Just click on the link above titled Food in NYC.